http://www2.journalnow.com/content/list/living/ en Dear Amy: My girlfriend wants to "talk" again. She is currently experiencing her monthly cycle.]]> Dear Amy: I have been in a long-distance relationship for more than three years now. We're students studying at different schools, and we see each other about once a month and during holidays.]]> The question: Fatigue is a frequent complaint of people getting chemotherapy for cancer. Might exercise change that?]]> Dear Carolyn: I share custody of my 3 ½-year-old daughter with my ex-wife, who got remarried last year. Her new husband describes himself as a "nice guy," and is overtly hoping that somehow I fail as a father so he can be "daddy." The divorce was anything but amicable. While things have been]]> Dear Carolyn: As a mom of three girls, is it in my job description to try to ensure my daughters are close? My two oldest (10 and 8) are absolutely inseparable, which is great, but they have never had much interest in their 5-year-old sister. They have started asking whether I will take just the two]]> Dear Advice Goddess: I kept seeing this woman I was interested in at pool parties, but I've always been very shy and reluctant to make the first move. At the third party, she hugged me as she was leaving. The following week, she kissed me. I invited her to come up for dinner. We had a great time. I even kissed her, and she didn't resist. Several days later, she said she'd see me at my condo's pool that afternoon, but never showed or called. Midweek, I texted her, inviting her over for "drinks, soft music, and a nice relaxing massage to ease the stress of the work week." No response. Amy, I just meant a back rub, clothes on, like I once gave a female friend. I've never thought of a massage as having sexual connotations. Do you think she inferred that from my offer of a "stress reliever," and is that where I went wrong? -- Devastated]]> The question: Might losing weight improve the disturbed breathing known as obstructive sleep apnea?]]> Dear Amy: I am a freshman in college.]]>