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Live With Us: Americans moved to adopt children who have been left HIV-positive
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Erin Henderson lives in rural Wyoming with her husband, Joshua (top), and their 11 children, including adopted Ethiopians (from left) Solomon and Belane.
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Published: August 30, 2008
ADDIS ABABA, Ethiopia -- Solomon Henderson inherited just three things from his birth parents, who left him at an Ethiopian orphanage when he was 1 year old -- a picture of Jesus, a plastic crucifix and HIV.
As one of about 14,000 Ethiopian children born with HIV every year, Solomon's prospects for survival -- much less adoption -- were grim. But Erin Henderson's heart stirred when she saw him, and she decided, on the spot, to adopt him.
"They told me that they weren't sure he would live through the weekend," Henderson said by e-mail from her home in rural Wyoming, where she lives with her husband and 11 children, two of whom are HIV-positive adoptees from Ethiopia.
Solomon, now an active 2-year-old with chubby cheeks and a shy smile, is part of a small but growing movement -- Americans adopting HIV-positive children from abroad.
Figures from Adoption Advocates International, a U.S. agency that arranges the majority of HIV-positive adoptions in Ethiopia, show a clear and steady rise, from two such adoptions in 2005, four in 2006, 13 in 2007, and 38 either completed or pending this year.
The U.S. Embassy corroborates the trend, although its numbers are slightly different because it counts adoptions according to fiscal year. So far this year, the embassy said, Americans have adopted 25 HIV-positive children from Ethiopia, up from seven the year before.
Ethiopia is at the forefront of the trend, in part because it is a well-established adoption hub. But countries including China, Ghana, Haiti and Russia also have had increases, although the numbers remain small -- fewer than five children in each country this year, according to U.S. adoption agencies that work with HIV-positive children. The figures could be higher, however; many nations do not ask if a departing child has HIV.
The motivations are wide-ranging -- some parents say they were driven by religion or a desire for social change, or that the disease is more manageable than ever before. Others, like Julie Hehn, gave more personal reasons.
"I was just scrolling through these pictures, and I saw the photo of Tsegenet, and I said, ‘Oh, my God, that's my daughter,'" said Hehn, a 53-year-old elementary schoolteacher from Edmonds, Wash.
Hehn said she was not looking for an HIV-positive child when she decided to adopt from Ethiopia.
"I fell in love with Tsegenet and it just happens she's HIV-positive," said Hehn, who has 27 children, 19 of them adopted from Ethiopia and five adopted from the U.S.
At a recent goodbye party at an orphanage in Addis Ababa, a 9-year-old girl who was heading to the United States with her adoptive family gave a shy smile as her friends ate doughnuts and sang farewell songs.
The children -- all of whom have HIV or AIDS and are looking for new families -- belted out an Ethiopian hymn called "No One Is Ashamed of You."
Ethiopian adoptions to the United States peaked at 1,255 in 2007, and the adoption of HIV-positive children is growing in step, according to U.S. government figures. American adoptions in Ethiopia have steadily risen from 135 in 2003, to 289 in 2004, to 440 in 2005, to 731 in 2006.
So far, none of the children adopted through Adoption Advocates International in Ethiopia since 2005 has died. The oldest is now 13.
Margaret Fleming, the founder of Chances By Choice, an international HIV-positive adoption advocacy group that connects parents with HIV-positive children and adoption agencies, said that her group also has overseen adoptions of children from Haiti, Guatemala and Russia.
Fleming said that her group has helped bring about 52 international HIV-positive adoptions since 2002 from assorted adoption agencies and countries, including Ethiopia.
Fleming, who has three HIV-positive children in her own brood of 12 children, said she wanted to make a difference in the world.
"I feel like I'm on the cutting edge of making an impact on this epidemic," Fleming, 72, said by telephone from her office in Chicago. "It's given us a chance to be ambassadors, and our children to be ambassadors."
Over the past 10 years, HIV has become a manageable, chronic disease, rather than a death sentence. Some children, like Solomon, require daily medication that can cost between $700 and $1,500 a month, though all parents planning to adopt children with HIV are required to carry health insurance, so costs are usually less.
Others, such as Tsegenet Hehn, have been told by doctors that the low levels of the virus in their blood mean they don't need any medication.
"She doesn't get sick any more than my other children," said Hehn, who said another daughter, who has a condition that makes her react violently to wheat and gluten products, requires more care than Tsegenet.
Michael Leavitt, the U.S. Secretary of Health and Human Services, said that HIV-positive adoptees pose no public health threat in America. Congress is set to repeal legislation that requires those with HIV to get waivers to enter the U.S. For adopted children with HIV, the waiver requirement can increase the nine- to 12-month adoption process by about two weeks.
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